男同胞們，你可知道求婚太晚會(huì)給女人造成怎樣的傷害嗎？ 擔(dān)心、嫉妒、惱火、絕望、要瘋了……來(lái)看看女人們的真實(shí)心跡。

While the vast majority of women are happy to let their relationships develop at their own pace - there are apparently quite a few who feel the total opposite.
雖然絕大多數(shù)女性都很樂(lè)意讓?xiě)偾樽匀坏匕l(fā)展，但是也有女性不這么想，而且這樣的女性還不少。

Dozens of women have taken to secret-sharing site Whisper to reveal how they REALLY feel about waiting to get engaged... and it's not good.
數(shù)十名女性在秘密分享網(wǎng)站W(wǎng)hisper上吐露了自己等待訂婚的真實(shí)心情……而且這滋味并不好受。

It appears for most of these women, marriage is the ultimate goal - and some seem pretty offended that their boyfriend has yet to pop the question.
對(duì)大多數(shù)這些女性來(lái)說(shuō)，結(jié)婚似乎是她們的終極目標(biāo)——有些人甚至因?yàn)槟杏堰€沒(méi)求婚而相當(dāng)惱火。

One woman refused to be 'just the girlfriend' and hinted she'd break up with her boyfriend if he didn't propose soon
一個(gè)女人拒絕“只做女朋友”，并暗示說(shuō)，如果男友不在近期求婚，她就要和他分手。

“我告訴男友我的女友身份是有有效期的。我不會(huì)一輩子都只做他的女朋友?！?/p>

This woman was just one of many who felt that she couldn't 'wait any longer'
這個(gè)女人只是眾多“再也等不了”的女人中的一員。

“我真的很希望我的男友能向我求婚。我一直在等。我覺(jué)得自己再也等不了了?！?/p>

From the woman who refuses to spend her life as 'just the girlfriend' from the one who's planning to split from her long-term partner because seeing other friends get engaged 'breaks her heart' - these ladies are not holding back.
從拒絕再做女朋友到因?yàn)榭吹脚笥褌兗娂娪喕槎蛩愫徒煌嗄甑哪杏逊质?，這些女性的心跡袒露無(wú)遺。

One admitted she was about to end her long-term relationship because of how jealous she feels when friends get engaged.
一個(gè)女人坦言說(shuō)，因?yàn)榕笥延喕槎纳刀实乃蛩愫徒煌嗄甑哪杏逊质帧?/p>

“我正準(zhǔn)備離開(kāi)交往了三年半的男友……他還沒(méi)有向我求婚，每當(dāng)我看到我的某個(gè)朋友訂婚或結(jié)婚時(shí)，我嫉妒得心都碎了。”

In a post that is bound to send chills down the spine of some men, this lady said she was 'literally going insane' waiting for a proposal.
在一個(gè)帖子中，這位女性表示她等求婚等得“快要瘋了”。這樣的心聲恐怕會(huì)讓一些男性不寒而栗。

“我等我的男友求婚等得快要瘋了。我覺(jué)得我等得已經(jīng)夠久了。我害怕自己的瘋狂會(huì)把他嚇走。有什么辦法可以在等待訂婚的過(guò)程中不瘋掉？”

This woman was clearly starting to question the future of her relationship
這名女性顯然已開(kāi)始質(zhì)疑戀情的未來(lái)。

“我和我的男友在一起五年了，我等他求婚已經(jīng)等得絕望了。我已經(jīng)準(zhǔn)備好做他的妻子。我開(kāi)始懷疑他是否想娶我為妻……”

One clearly felt as though she'd waited long enough for her boyfriend to pop the question
一名女性顯然覺(jué)得她等男友求婚已經(jīng)等得夠久了。

“要是我的男友向我求婚就好了。我實(shí)在不懂他為什么要拖這么久?！?/p>

Plenty of women expressed the fear that their partner may never propose to them
許多女性擔(dān)心她們的男友永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)求婚。

“我希望他能向我求婚。我已經(jīng)等累了，我害怕那一天永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)到來(lái)。”

One woman felt the lack of a proposal indicated that her boyfriend didn't feel like she was 'good enough'
一名女性認(rèn)為男友不求婚意味著男友認(rèn)為她“不夠好”。

“我已經(jīng)和某人在一起將近6年了，他卻還沒(méi)求婚，這開(kāi)始讓我感到抑郁。這讓我覺(jué)得自己不夠好?！?/p>

英文來(lái)源：每日郵報(bào)
翻譯&編輯：丹妮